How to combat's one's anger.
Hi Folks ! We come across with many person's who are difficult to handle and esp when they get angry for no reasons of yours. They are very stubborn and arrogant in their behavior. The courage person is those who overcome them not in going against in conflicts rather than by their cool nature and positive attitude.
It is very easy to make an enemy but very difficult to turn an enemy in to a friend.It is very easy to break the relationships but very difficult to join the broken relationship. So, when time comes to get an angry, don't panic or get annoyed but ignore that person by not allowing him to interact with you rather indulging or getting angry because we don't know how our words and irritation will effect him. If that person take in a wrong way, might be he can take revenge afterwords or he may take upon an a positive note and improve himself in future.
Now , the question rises if a person is getting wild on you and screaming and shouting for no fault of yours whether it would to remain quit or confront to him? If we confront at that time he might intensify and indulge in to more conflict and if we remain quiet our ego will get hurt and we will more anger from inside towards him that is more dangerous and can lead to a fury.
The solutions of this problem is not to remain silent as well as not to confront since both leads to danger afterwards. Once said by elder person whatever the annoy person speaks let him speak or give some time to remove his anger but don't take his harsh words on your mind and heart.When he gets cool and peaceful try to solace him and put your response or confront him in an amicably manner. It is this time he will understand and will feel apologize to you.
So this is the manner to keep the situation cool and favour at your side. If one person is shouting another should remain quiet. Our duty is to make one's anger to a positive note. This can only happen if one is having enough patience and positive thinking.Keep a soft and sweet tongue. The same sentence spoken from a sweet tongue can give a win a win battle and vice versa. Positive thinking, Calmness, Sweetness, Truthfulness, Honesty, Politeness, Humbleness, Gracefulness, Regards, likeness, Loveness, Fondness are the qualities which make you a better and best person in your life.
It is very easy to make an enemy but very difficult to turn an enemy in to a friend.It is very easy to break the relationships but very difficult to join the broken relationship. So, when time comes to get an angry, don't panic or get annoyed but ignore that person by not allowing him to interact with you rather indulging or getting angry because we don't know how our words and irritation will effect him. If that person take in a wrong way, might be he can take revenge afterwords or he may take upon an a positive note and improve himself in future.
Now , the question rises if a person is getting wild on you and screaming and shouting for no fault of yours whether it would to remain quit or confront to him? If we confront at that time he might intensify and indulge in to more conflict and if we remain quiet our ego will get hurt and we will more anger from inside towards him that is more dangerous and can lead to a fury.
The solutions of this problem is not to remain silent as well as not to confront since both leads to danger afterwards. Once said by elder person whatever the annoy person speaks let him speak or give some time to remove his anger but don't take his harsh words on your mind and heart.When he gets cool and peaceful try to solace him and put your response or confront him in an amicably manner. It is this time he will understand and will feel apologize to you.
So this is the manner to keep the situation cool and favour at your side. If one person is shouting another should remain quiet. Our duty is to make one's anger to a positive note. This can only happen if one is having enough patience and positive thinking.Keep a soft and sweet tongue. The same sentence spoken from a sweet tongue can give a win a win battle and vice versa. Positive thinking, Calmness, Sweetness, Truthfulness, Honesty, Politeness, Humbleness, Gracefulness, Regards, likeness, Loveness, Fondness are the qualities which make you a better and best person in your life.
posted by kfsahiwala @ March 16, 2012
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